Last post(?)

You never know when it will be your last post. If this was my last post, there are some things I would want to say - especially to my kids.

1. Please, learn from others' mistakes. That includes me. That's why I'm writing this.
2. Despite all temptation, *never* think that you know it all. You might know a lot, and that's good, but there is always something to learn.
3. On the other hand, have confidence in your abilities. Speak up if you know the answer.
   
4. Learn something new every day. Be a different and better person than the one who started the day.
5. Never stop doing these things. In 10 years you'll look back at yourself and say "Wow!"
6. Share something every day. Not everyone will appreciate this, but some will. And some of those you will inspire.
7. Choose your audience. Not everyone will care what you have to say, but some will. If you can't make a change, talk to those who can.
   
8. Choose your battles. Save your strength and your reputation for the important things. Many things will piss you off, but they're not all battles worth fighting.
9. If you really *have to* say something that is risky or might get you in hot water, write it down. Then wait. Read it over the next day. Or the next week. See if you don't already feel better. Or maybe you still feel like you want to send it or say it. And that's fine. This is a good way of weeding out the little things.
   
10. Life may be lonely at times, but don't *ever* feel like you're in it alone. There are people who care about you who you may not even know (yet).
11. Don't take life too seriously. Don't sweat the small stuff. And yes, it *is* all small stuff.
12. When the going gets tough, ask yourself, "will any of this matter in 100 years?"
13. Read "Sunscreen," by Mary Schmich, and then listen to Baz Lurhmann's version (credited to Kurt Vonnegut). Take this advice.
14. Read Kurt Vonnegut. Now there's a guy with a sense of humour.
15. Take time to relax every day. Laugh.
16. Know that life is about disappointment. And every disappointment *is* an opportunity. You just won't know until afterward. Sometimes it may take years to see it.
17. Read Steve Jobs 2005 Stanford commencement speech. Yes, life is about coincidences and connecting the dots.
18. Look back and connect your dots. Find your strengths. Exploit them.
19. When you go through your day, take note of and appreciate the things you use automatically, without thinking. Water, electricity, gas. Think about what you would do if they weren't there. There are times they won't be.
20. Learn the power of silence (also known as "keeping your mouth closed - and your foot out of it").
    
21. Don't blog everything. The internet is forever. When you get ready to post something, ask yourself, "do I want my children and my grandchildren reading this?"
22. Say "thank you." If you really appreciate someone, tell them. Don't wait until it's too late.

Thank you.